I am 40 years old and I gave up my love life
A single woman has said she is giving up on dating – because she believes she can’t fit into the current culture of dating in her 40s.
Charlotte Henderson gives three main reasons why she feels unsuited to today’s dating world.
Relying on her TikTok account, to download the post which has now gone viral, Charlotte says she feels like everyone is playing games on the dating scene these days.
Posting under the @ lottiehenderson1 domain Charlotte said: “It’s time to give up dating. That’s it, I’m done. I’ll never fit into this dating culture, ever.”
“Here are three reasons why. First, I don’t do multiple dates. I can’t date someone. If I’m dating someone, I won’t keep sweeping, looking for the next one. best thing. You have my attention “the woman added.
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Charlotte said she feels multiple dating creates a competitive situation, in the context of a potential relationship.
“I don’t talk to several people, and putting that in a form of competition is not my style, I can’t do it,” she said.
Adding, “Second, I don’t ghost. Why? Because I’m an adult. And I can actually have a conversation and explain how I’m feeling, pretty clearly.”
For her final point, Charlotte says she refuses to play mind games, but thinks that choice puts her in the minority.
“I don’t play mind games. I don’t play any form of games. What you see is what you get. I won’t blow hot and cold, you will never doubt that. that I feel for you and I love the same back, ”she said.
Adding: “You see, I will never fit into this dating culture.”
“Finally someone telling the truth… the 2021 dates are a nightmare. I feel your pain,” one person said.
Another said: “I agree with you. Better to be single and have friends than this ridiculous date scene now. Well done to you.” commented a third.
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