Jay Cutler struggles to find love again after his divorce from Very Cavallari and The hills star Kristin Cavallari. The former NFL athlete and reality TV star has announced that they are breaking up after sharing 10 years of love together last April. They share three children: Camden, 9, Jaxon, 7, and Saylor, 5.
A week after their Instagram post, new details about marital misconduct emerged in public documents. Kristin listed the separation date as April 7 and filed for divorce in Tennessee on April 24 because Jay “Is guilty of inappropriate marital conduct which makes continued cohabitation dangerous and inappropriate”, adding that “Any misconduct alleged or implied against her in the divorce complaint was in response to and / or as a result of misconduct on the part of the husband.” Kristin also applied for primary physical custody of the three children and applied for child support. She asks that Jay be allowed to visit if he pays for their children’s health insurance and maintains a life insurance policy with his name listed as the sole beneficiary. From Jay, he filed for divorce on April 21, citing only irreconcilable differences and did not mention any allegations of misconduct against his ex-wife. That said, he is asking for joint custody of their children and a fair distribution of marital property. Court documents also revealed that a temporary restraining order had been filed, which is apparently the normal norm for divorces in their state of residence.
During a new episode of his Uncut with Jay Cutler podcast, the 38-year-old former athlete explained what dating is like in today’s society for a single dad. “It’s hard as hell, really,” he said. “Meeting people is difficult. I think finding out what people really want from you, I think that’s probably a problem. Jay took his frustrations out of going a step further by explaining how his priorities changed and now he has to think about how the women who catch his eye would be as a stepmom, rather than just as that future bride. And as if that wasn’t enough to consider, Jay opened up about the moment he realized the world was no longer designed to meet someone casually. “The whole landscape has changed. There are apps, there is Twitter, there is Instagram, it’s a whole different ball game”, he said. “You don’t just walk into a restaurant or bar and talk to someone. It doesn’t exist anymore.”
Jay’s candid conversation comes months after a source said Entertainment tonight that he joined the exclusive celebrity dating app Raya. His profile says he’s just on the app to find new friends after his divorce. Prior to joining the dating app, Jay was linked to Southern charmby Madison LeCroy.
As for Kristin and Jay’s current situation, they’re just focused on making the transition as easy as possible for their kids. Although Jay is no longer Very Cavallari, hoping he can still find love the old fashioned way. As the world has changed, Tennessee is still teeming with restaurants, bars, and lounges where single residents go for a drink on the go and listen to live music.
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